Specialist Relational Trauma Counselling
➼ Heal past trauma and process your emotions after an abusive or controlling relationship
➼ Transform your life with trauma-informed care & recovery, boundaries and communication
➼ Thrive as you take small steps to overcome betrayal or damage from a toxic relationship
➼ Learn to move on from the grief and loss of the relationship and reconnect with yourself
The Relationship With Yourself
What if your relationship with yourself could change the way you experience your life?
Like a sunflower reaching towards the light, we all have the capacity to grow, heal, and thrive — even after seasons of darkness, uncertainty, and change.
Have you lost touch with who you are? Do you struggle to recognise your worth, honour your needs, or feel confident in yourself? Are you ready to let go of what holds you back and embrace new possibilities?
You don’t have to remain where you are. Your past does not define your future, and change is possible. 🌻 Your journey begins with you.
Heal what hurts. Transform what holds you back. Thrive as you become.
Specialist Relational Trauma Counsellor | Social Worker
Hayley Gravener
We all have a story.
Your story matters and deserves to be honoured. Even the messy, painful, and sad parts deserve space to be told.
I have worked with women, men, families, and married couples across different cultures and backgrounds for 16 years. I have listened to and seen the devastating effects on adults due to the negative impacts of childhood abuse, violence, maltreatment, abandonment, and serious neglect in early childhood and adolescence in family relationships.
These Relational Trauma impacts follow adults well into their closest and intimate relationships, and the grief and loss of not experiencing a safe, protected, loving, or nurturing upbringing are always present.
Many suffer deep emotional wounds and internal turmoil due to unprocessed emotions and unhealed wounds that are linked to past or present relational trauma in our most significant relationships. There is a barrier and fear of expressing emotions due to becoming vulnerable, and the uncomfortable feelings associated with never feeling heard, wanted, loved, or accepted.
At Be Healed Specialist Counselling, we provide women, families, and married couples with a safe, trusting, and nurturing space to share their life stories and experience the hope for a brighter future. Feeling safe when expressing the real and raw parts of themselves is important.
We offer compassion, empowerment, non-judgement, and a person-centred approach to the foundations of our time together, as this is when true healing happens. We will support you to break off the shame, guilt, and blame of what happened to you, and support you to recreate a new story. One with hope, peace, and freedom.
Healing is a normal process and a personal journey. You have come this far, well done! Keep taking small steps to do this for you, as your future self will thank you for it.
Let’s talk and figure it out together.
Be Healed Specialist Services
Specialist Counselling - For Women and Married Couples
Abusive Relationships. Toxic Relationships. Red Flags. Betrayal. Relational Trauma (childhood/adolescence). PTSD. Emotional Manipulation. Complex Trauma and Relationships. Grief and Loss.
Be Healed Specialist Counselling offers women and married couples trauma-informed practice, care, healing, and recovery in all sessions with proven techniques to resolve, overcome, and work through pain and suffering caused by childhood, adolescent, or adult relationships.
Women and married couples deserve to feel safe, loved, respected, nurtured and protected. They will learn how to regain control of their emotions, thoughts, behaviours and apply tailored relational strategies. These include boundary setting, communication skills, express their emotions and needs to confidently heal, transform, and thrive in their lives and stay connected in their relationships.
Appointments are available on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday.
In-person: at locations – Mornington, Frankston, and Hampton.
Telehealth and online: – anywhere in Australia.
Training and Education - For Businesses, Community Services, and Local Councils
Promoting Healthy and Respectful Workplace Relationships. Training and Education – Psychological impacts of bullying, Trauma-informed workplaces. Tailored Presentations and Workshops. Strengths and Solution-Focused, Conflict Resolution, Communication Skills, and Goal-Orientated Outcomes.
Engaging, insightful, interactive presentations, and workshops that keep audiences in the learning space and interested in developing their knowledge, improve any relationship, no matter what age or stage in life and apply new skills and strategies.
If you need to address HR barriers, people challenges, increase team morale, and promote professional and functioning relationships. I will develop a tailored training and education package with the desired and projected outcomes for your business and with the specific needs of your people. Training and education opportunities ensure your future success in all community, workplace, and business relationships.
Training and Education Packages are available: for businesses, community services, and local councils.